The great migration…

All the members of our family have embarked on an unexpected journey. The call was predictable but this kind of invitation always surprises us a little. We crossed Quebec from west to east to go to the bedside of an ancestor. Children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren are all going to say goodbye to Brigitte who, atContinue reading “The great migration…”

A voyage at the end of life….

Somewhere between Baie-des-sables and Mont-Joli, sitting on the beach, contemplating the sea and it’s magnificent stillness, i had to stop here and take the time because I felt inspired to write these words. I have traveled here to visit my 94 year old grand-mother. I felt a certain urgency to come here. Recently, she saidContinue reading “A voyage at the end of life….”

On conflict resolution and how to build bridges…

Let me tell you a story. We bought a pure bred dog last year. A nice and presumably healthy Vizla from reputable breeder. It was our first dog. We fell in love with her. She is so sweet. Our main reasons to have a dog was to provide companionship and balance to our only child.Continue reading “On conflict resolution and how to build bridges…”

The big Christmas Covid-19 lottery…

Are you too asking the question to family members: « are we getting together for Christmas this year? » Here is a story to illustrate my reflection on the subject … Each member and household in a group represents one chance or one ticket to win. The bigger the group, the better the odds. MoreContinue reading “The big Christmas Covid-19 lottery…”

At the intersection of arts and science…

I am a man at the intersection of arts and science. An intellectual man can be great at passing tests and get through diplomation and become a doctor but he will never be a good doctor if he does not put care, warmth and empathy in his bedside manners and human relations. A good doctorContinue reading “At the intersection of arts and science…”

On building bridges and why we need science…

I need to build a bridge at the cottage. It will allow the ambulance to get to us in case of a medical emergency. I am hesitating between a vaulted, arched or cable-stayed bridge. For the materials, I don’t know if I should use reinforced concrete or steel. What do you think about? Please giveContinue reading “On building bridges and why we need science…”

When caring means burning out…

A story about the sacrifice health care workers make every day. Here is a powerful excerpt. I encourage you to read the entire article here. « For many health-care workers, the toll of the pandemic goes beyond physical exhaustion. COVID-19 has eaten away at the emotional core of their work. “To be a nurse, youContinue reading “When caring means burning out…”

On fear and courage …

(Nov 6th 2013) I faced death today. The death of a small baby. He was in respiratory distress. I’m an emergency physician and currently working in a very very remote area of Northern Quebec. We had to resuscitate him, intubate and ventilate, do CPR, give him resuscitation meds.I was in an hostile environment, without myContinue reading “On fear and courage …”

A unique word of attachment and love in Korean

jeong (정). Korean term without equivalent. Deep affinity. Lasting and loyal attachment. A notion stronger and greater than the love that grows with time, that takes root and withstands the tests. A form of resilience that enriches life together and life with our human network. Involves taking care of oneself and the other. A commitmentContinue reading “A unique word of attachment and love in Korean”